To be honest 2020 is not off to a great start. Two days in and there was rumors of WWIII , Puerto Rico had an earthquake or several earthquakes I hear, The continent of Australia is burning to the ground as we speak, And Princess Meghan and Harry are bout to dip outta the palace. Warris going on? I demand to know what’s in the water! It’s as if we’re all going mad or something.

In the spirit of making the best of the situation I’m here to explain why we should be following aunty Meghan’s lead and living our best lives as well. Because this year we can not come and kill ourselves. According to CNN.com (Which is a credible source because I’m African lol) The Duke and Duchess of Sussex decided to walk away from their royal duties on January 8th. Their reasons are not too clear other than wanting to be financially independent. I strongly suspect that their decision has something to do with boredom and the simple fact that Meghan was not accepted into the Monarchy. How do you lead where you are constantly being reminded that you don’t belong? But it’s only my opinion oh.

1. Dare To Be Authentic

I always knew Meghan was a G after she made the decision to walk halfway down the aisle alone. From following her work and researching I learned that she is a feminist and has no problem telling people what the deal is. It is very important to be yourself no matter which enviroment you’re in. People are going to mock you and try to make you small for being you but dare to be authentic. Authenticity will take you far in life, not only are people going to trust you for being yourself but the world will appreciate your relativity.

2. Walk Away When Respect Is Not Being Served

“I never thought that this (media scrutiny) would be easy, but I thought it would be fair. And that’s the part that’s really hard to reconcile,” – Meghan Markle It’s no secret that Meghan and her family has been disrespected by the media in both America and England. She is one of the most disrespected royal ever! The racism that was directed towards her is just disgusting! Sometimes in life you have to learn to walk away when you’re not being appreciated. Meghan went from being a celebrated celebrity in America to being the biggest clown in England. It’s best to dwell where you are being respected and walk away when respect has been taken away from the table. 

3.Financial Independence Is Key

Nobody is coming at you if you’re able to stand on your own two feet without a man. Meghan can live without the Royal’s money because she was chasing the bag before them and sis even got a new deal with Givenchy! Financial independence will help you move in life.

4. Know Your Worth And Let Em Know!

It’s important to carry yourself with respect and others are guaranteed to treat the same. Carry yourself how you want people to address you.

5. Protect What’s Important To You

Family, friends, loved ones, education, business, etc… Whatever is important to you is worth protecting. I always say that outside energies will throw off your goals. Protect your ideas, protect your family, protect your energy! Protect those who are important to you.

That’s all for now until next time stay fabulous!
Peace, love and happy shopping

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